In our conversation a couple weeks ago, she made the comment that despite all of the time and effort we spend into our physical appearance, in the end it is completely pointless. Because in the end, as in after this life, we will all be resurrected. In the Book of Mormon, in Alma chapter 40 verse 23, we read: "The soul shall be restored to the body, and the body to the soul; yea, and every limb and joint shall be restored to its body; yea, even a hair of the head shall not be lost; but all things shall be restored to their proper and perfect frame." When we are resurrected, we will have perfect bodies, every single one of us, no matter if we have been good or if we have been evil (see Eternal Life--Definition). So why do we need to worry so much about what we look like? What we really should be focusing on is our spiritual appearance.
Because of the Atonement of Jesus Christ, we have the possibility to become clean of our sins and live with God again. To inherit this aspect of Eternal Life, however, it is absolutely necessary that we become clean. "And no unclean thing can enter into his kingdom; therefore nothing entereth into his rest save it be those who have washed their garments in my blood, because of their faith, and the repentance of all their sins, and their faithfulness unto the end." (3 Nephi 27:19) So instead of spending all of our time trying to change our outward appearance, we should be focusing more on what really matters in the end. We should fixate on those characteristics that take us farther away from God and do all that we can to eliminate them. We should focus on developing a thorough spiritual beauty regimen, making habits like daily prayer and scripture study that will prevent unwanted characteristics. We should focus our efforts into developing Christ-like attributes.
Alma chapter 5, verses 14-16, 19, read:
14 And now behold, I ask of you, my brethren of the church, have ye spiritually been born of God? Have ye received his image in your countenances? Have ye experienced this mighty change in your hearts?
15 Do ye exercise faith in the redemption of him who created you? Do you look forward with an eye of faith, and view this mortal body raised in immortality, and this corruption raised in incorruption, to stand before God to be judged according to the deeds which have been done in the mortal body?
16 I say unto you, can you imagine to yourselves that ye hear the voice of the Lord, saying unto you, in that day: Come unto me ye blessed, for behold, your works have been the works of righteousness upon the face of the earth?
19 I say unto you, can ye look up to God at that day with a pure heart and clean hands? I say unto you, can you look up, having the image of God engraven upon your countenances?
Let us ever be diligent in making our spiritual selves more beautiful, repenting daily and accessing the most wonderful gift of the Atonement of Christ. No matter what we do in this life, we will have a perfect body when all is said and done. Let us strive to have a perfect spirit as well!